COLLEGE~

in college...u should not be anti social....and u MUZ hav good language command...ENGLISH......so i nid to start improving my eng nw....otherwise there will be regrets.....

lenglui mum and the dog...the dog din look at the camera...haiz

siblings and doggie

DAiSy the doggie....a gift frm my mum's fren....

bio teacher xiu zhi....aloy...cp...
cp...shue xiang...aloy wif covered eyes...
aloy...college gal pooi shan...cp
大合照。。。
another 1...

中华园游会。。。

boys...it helps....IT IS LOVE BIBLE

我是女生，看到有的男生想追自己喜欢的女孩子又不敢追，还想人家倒追她，我很反感. 从一个女生的角度，我比较了解女孩子的心理。女孩子大多不会主动出击，去追求自己喜欢的男孩，除了确实太喜欢了或者是那种比较有个性的勇敢的女孩子。所以，如果你很喜欢一个女孩子，并且认为她对你也有点意思，那就主动点，别跟她搞拉锯战，自己难受，说不定你喜欢的人也痛苦。 任何一个女孩子在被人追的时候，心理都是很复杂的。她也许很开心，但是又带着点惶恐，她对这个闯进自己平静的生活的男孩子，有着欲拒还迎的矛盾心理，她不是故意的。不要以为她在考验你，她其实也在和自己斗争，她怕受到伤害。 不要怕你的主动会带来她的反感，你不主动，她也不主动，也就慢慢淡下来了。如果你开始的表白被她拒绝，那也很正常呀。不要气馁，谁知道这个女孩子心里在想什么呢？ 也许你再表白两次，她就会被你打动，一个心地善良的好女孩是很容易感动的。 如果你受到一次挫折，就立刻离开，再也不去答理这个女孩，把自己紧紧地保护起来，默默地舔舐伤口，在你痛苦的同时，殊不知，那个女孩子也许也正在心里遗憾、后悔呢！也许她会偷偷哭泣，后悔拒绝了你，再看到你漠然的眼神，她也很痛心，但是她却不会对你说，绝对不会请求你回来追她。你的过度的自尊心，可能会伤害了女孩子敏感的心。 她会认为你不是真诚的喜欢他，要不怎么会就这么放弃了她？ 有人说，男生真难，追女孩子太不容易了。可是我的感觉却是，这种现象跟男人和女人的社会角色定位是分不开的，从生理和社会的角度，女人总是被动的。如果反过来, 让男人都脉脉含羞，女人变得勇往直前，世界才乱了套呢！女人的羞涩总是美好的、动人的呀~我总是听说是某个勇敢的男人战胜了多少困难，最终获得佳人芳心。相反的例子却少得很。 有的男生，就怕别人说自己什么死缠烂打，落下不好的名声。可是我觉得男生追求自己喜欢的女孩子，受了点挫折还继续对这个女孩子好，说明人家确实很喜欢，很有诚意，如果没成功，也不遗憾，并没什么啊？谁让人家喜欢了？最讨厌别人跟着瞎掺乎，也最讨厌那种自己没主意，过于在乎别人对自己看法的男生，活该这种男生找不到女朋友。 是男人就勇敢点，女孩子本来就感性，容易沉浸在爱情里。虽然你付出了辛苦，而一旦你的真心打动了她，那么你得到的将是更多更久的加倍的爱。这样的例子，在身边比比皆是。女孩子对自己的男朋友都是很温柔很贴心的，为了换来这份甜蜜，开头的辛苦算什么啊？而且大多好女孩都爱得挺投入挺专一的。 所以，建议有的男生勇敢一点，去追求自己喜欢的女孩子，不要那么畏畏缩缩，一来是让人觉得你没男人气概，二来是你自己怪难受的，然而最最最重要的还是：最后你什么都得不到。幸福总是自己挣来的，别指望别人施舍给你！ 再补充一句，我觉得主动点儿挺好的，因为你的目标是你自己真心喜欢的，女孩子往往被动，被动的只能选择接受和拒绝，所以我宁愿主动出击，爱我所爱，无怨无悔！ －－－－－ 人生很美好，快乐在其中，要学会寻找!

一、应该给MM留下什么样的第一印象（时间：刚开始接触MM）

1、我认为最关键的，是要让MM看到你的上进心。 男人的最大魅力在于事业有成，年轻人工作时间不长谈不上“有成”，这时候你就要让MM觉得你是个有上进心的人。 别的可以胡说八道，但这个问题不能含糊，你一定要告诉MM，你对未来充满信心，你不满足于现状，并且你已经有了长远的计划，总之你的未来不是梦。

2、要显得有信心、有责任心 不要像个小孩子，女孩子都很懒希望能找个依靠，你要拿出自己的信心和责任心来。 有一个错的选择总比没有选择要好的多。

3、不要太正经，但也不要太随便 该正经的地方就正经，该调侃的的时候就调侃。 女孩子都喜欢有点玩世不恭的男人，所以别显得对什么都特别在意，那样太呆板。

4、显得成熟一点 遇事镇定、从容不迫的男人对MM有致命的吸引力。

二、如何与MM展开进一步接触（时间：开始追的阶段）

1、这个阶段最关键的是不能着急，不要把事情弄的那么清楚，让人家一眼就能看出你在 追人家。 想一想，一般人都不会一眼就看上你，但也不会看一眼就讨厌你，都是老百姓家的孩子（除非你长得象周润发刘德华或者凯文科斯特纳），好感是需要随着了解的不断增加而实现的，所以问题的关键是你要得的进一步发展的机会。 站在女孩子的角度替人家想一想：你这么直接了当的冲过来要搞对象，女孩子肯定有心理压力。这要是接触一阵后发现不喜欢你，那不就成了耍你了么？所以如果你开始就摆出志在必得的姿势出来，基本上会被立刻闷回去。

2、要低姿态起步 首先要把关系定位成“朋友”，本来是“普通朋友”，你希望成为“好朋友”，有品位的还可以要求对方成为“红颜知己”什么的，总之千万不要说“追你”。 你想想，你如果根本不提“追”，那么女孩子也就更没机会“拒绝”你——你没追她怎么拒绝你？！ 这样可以减轻女孩子的心理压力，使你们能顺利的交往下去。不要幻想认识三天就答应嫁给你，要充分的交往、了解，感情不是凭空产生的。

3、交往的过程中不要太急躁 要有张有弛，不要整天缠着人家，谁这样对你，你也会腻。我有个好朋友对我说，追女孩子的关键是八个字—— “忽冷忽热、欲擒故纵”（这是我同学多少年心血的结晶）。 你整天缠着人家自然不觉得你好，你适当的冷个一两天，女孩子就会想起你在的好处了。 还有就是不要拿出“非你不娶”的志气来，太掉价了不好，有时候可以耍点花招。

4、要适当的创造机会 前面说了，不要使事情立刻变成“你在追别人”，而你又需要得到接近女孩子的机会，这时就要看你的创造力了。 你可以搜集情报，想办法把守株待兔变成一场邂逅；也可以装做漫不经心的找出最最充足的理由邀请对方和你一起做什么事。 总之这个是最有技术含量的地方，实在不行可以找前辈请教。

5、切忌切忌：随便送人家礼物是不礼貌的 有些人追女孩子心切，喜欢经常买东西送人家，殊不知追女孩子最忌讳这个。 俗话说“无功不受禄”，你这样送人家东西就是在施加压力，人家会觉得欠你的，所以会 想办法还给你，如果没办法还给你就会想办法不和你交往，免得总是欠你人情。 如果你想显示自己的诚意，倒不妨请女孩子一起消费，比如说找好的餐厅吃饭，或者找贵 的地方一起玩什么的，女孩子自然能看出你花了很多钱，但钱终究是两个人一起花了而不是变成东西带回家。

三、“女朋友”到底是什么？

1、“女朋友”是一种事实，而不是一份承诺 你和女孩子开始交往，从“普通朋友”变成“好朋友”，再到“非常非常好、无话不谈的朋友”，某一个阳光灿烂的午后，你“不小心”拉了她的手；“月上柳梢头”，你突然袭击吻了她。这时她就已经是你的女朋友了，无论她是否承认，她心理已经认为你是他男朋友了。 我知道最高明的，直到上床了都没问过“你是否愿意做我女朋友”，最后还是女孩子急了 ：“你怎么还不求我做你女朋友啊！” 所以说，千万不要急于把窗户纸捅破，情况越朦胧对你越有利。

2、“表白”是什么？ 前面说了，表白实际上就是一个形式而已，正确的顺序应该是：事实上已经成为你女朋友 了，你才能向人家表白，水到渠成。 很多人弄不明白这个问题，总以为人家先答应做自己女朋友，然后再如何如何，我只能说非常非常“单纯”，也非常非常“愚蠢”。

3、有没有“迫不得已非表白不可”的时候？ 有，比如说出现第三者，或者你和女孩子关系没有成熟但两个人可能分开一段时间。 这时候的表白就是条件不成熟的表白，风险非常大，类似于下围棋的时候形势严峻，落後的一方迫于无奈放出“胜负手”，赢了就赢了，输了也只能说“倒霉都是天生的”。

4、“爱”字不要轻易出口 经常看见论坛出现“大胆的表白”，说实话我真的认为这是非常不成熟的一种表现。“爱”是一个神圣的字，意味着追求，也意味着承诺，甚至体现出一种责任。 随便说“爱”的男人是不负责任的。

四、文明恋爱，不可强求

1、不是每个MM都能追到手的 好女孩子总会有很多人追，不可能遂了每个人的心愿，总会有失败者。举个例子，就算你刻苦钻研掌握了最搞超的追MM原理，你一样追不上TWINS里的任何一个。 换个角度考虑问题，一个小学没毕业的农村小保姆，即使对你再好，每个月赚600给你买700的礼物（透支），愿意为你“当牛做马”，你也不会爱上她。如果她每天哭哭啼啼的缠 着，你肯定觉得烦。 所以说爱情是需要物质基础的，至少需要平衡。

2、追MM做是一种严肃的社会活动 千万不要把人家搞烦了，要给自己留后路。大丈夫何患无妻？有些MM确实势利眼（少数），如果不服气，你可以发愤图强，用事实证明“她当时瞎了眼”，绝对不要误人误己。

最后补充两点：

①千万不要在MM面前显得愤世嫉俗，愤世嫉俗有时候意味着“你很失败”。
②看帖千万一定要回帖，要不没有女孩会喜欢你滴~~~

bottom two is suck....kindly ignoRe##


i think these two is the best....

looks lik some1....

one of the best...i think...

i was working tat time...lol....

回忆起我们小时候。。。

TAGGED by Cartene!
Instructions: Remove ONE question from below, and add in your personal question, make it a total of 20 questions, then tag 8 people in your list, list them out at the end of this post. Notify them in their chat box that he/she has been tagged. Whoever does the tag will have blessings from all.

1.Have you given your first kiss away?
~>not sure...mum?? when i was around 8 years old...

2.wat is ur favourite hobby?(i change to this question becoz i hav no ANS for>If you were to be stranded on a deserted island, who are the 3 blog buddies you would take with you? Why?)
~>football....hearing music...helping others...

3.where is the place that you want to go the most?
~>england-manchester united ( to watch my fav fb team playing)....

4.If you can have 1 dream to come true, what would it be?
~>achieve good results in foundation program...

5.Do you believe in seeing a rainbow after the rain?
~>refer to physics text book-optics...refraction of light....

6.What are you afraid to lose the most now?
~>the gal....and fail in foundation program...

7.If you win $1 million, what would you do?
~>save in bank for more interest...use it for investment for more profit...use it for buying gifts for my family members and frens..build a football traning club....donate money(MAKE GOOD USE OF TAT money)

8.If you meet someone that you love, would you confess to him/her?
~>matter of TIMING & SKILL

9.List out 3 good points of the person who tagged you.
~>cute wif big eyes, love to laugh when she was young, and oso tiny & small...ahhahaha

10.What are the requirements that you wish from your other half?
~>love me , cute, dun waste money..haha

11.Which type of person do you hate the most?
~>lan yeng, LALA , 心机重, 自以为是。

12.What is your ambition?
~>MBA-master of business....enuf money to raise my future other half....

13.If you have faults, would you rather the people around you point out to you or would you rather they keep quiet?
~>point out....settle everything b4 become late...

14.What do you think is the most important thing in your life?
~>the gal....the foundation course...the enjoying time tat i spend wif my frens...

15.Are you a shopaholic or not?
~>dun waste money *.* unless u really lik tat stuff...

16.What kind of electronic device/gadget you own that you like most?
~>my phone tat keeps my fav songs,vids,pics.....

17.If you have a chance. Which part of your character you would like to change?
~>stop crictisizing ppl....and become 大只佬...to gain self-confidence...

18.Whats the last shocking thing you’ve seen or heard?
~>tat person saw my blog and giv comments....

19.What makes you feel disappointed?
~>betray by frens...spm results...scolding of family members....

20.Who is your admirer?Why?
~>CK-my bro....
because he is unique...he is unlike others....he takes good care of me....unlike other brothers..
he will sacrifice something important for me..for his frens....he is a teacher, a lecturer,n a
sucessful student...i cant reach beyond him...

i'll tag-
1.cartene
2.patrick
3.arnold
4.daniel
5.aloy
6.liu ming
7.ai mei
8.guo lun

hairstyle- the trend....

BEFORE

before 2
After~

at skul time....but after it become longer...disiplin teacher came to cut it off...haiz....

TREND....many ppl cut hair to folow the trend..but wat i think is cut the hair tat suits u better than folow the trend....sometimes it will become not nice....different ppl nid different hairstyle....dun cut hair tat shows ur 缺点。。。。hairstyle can change u..frm 丑小鸭 become lenglui and lengzhai....tat is the main reason u cut hair....not to folow the trend...folow wat u think tat suit u the best....GG

MSIG- WoRkiNG

When IT IS DONE...renewal notice for FEB..below ther is the stapler and my cup...haha
my working desk...full of renewal notices....nearly finish...left 10%
70% complete....FILES under my desk....

during my free times b4 studying college after i left chong hwa....haiz..it was really boring indeed during Jan and Feb...But I m damm relieved after finding work in an insurance company on MARCH....MSIG-mitsui sumitomo insurance company....oh gosh....paper batching, filing....and sorting...huu...sometimes it is really annoying....when some1 call u to sort papers tat r higher than ur height all together.....especially a whole BUNCH OF policy renewal notice!! even yao ming will lose if stand together wif it....i sorted it all by myself...on the 2nd day of my work...whoa...hands hurt...but i feel so proud of myself...rm50 aday...i think it is wothwhile gua.....

many aunties ther....chatting wif them makes me feel i m damm childish...i still dunno many knowlegde tat adults knew....so i learned many after everyday i went ther....my another temp staff fren ady gone....ther goes a new one....my fren tat resigned has taken photoes wif those aunties...some younger aunties got good looking....haahhaha....but my fren havent send me those photos....it was fun indeed...i m enjoying working....train muscles too....coz carry boxes tat hav loads of papers and files....feel so sad i m going to leave tat place after april....i will take photos wif them....i will rmb them always....hu made my holidays memorable and meaningful....

JoGoYa moment....

professor snape cp*

JoGoya sign


DRAGON OF JOGOYA


me and my leng zhai uncle...


wahaha...pictures taken at Jogoya...i ate a lot tat day...rm100++...dun waste money...EAT++
but i saw a baby cockroach ther....kakaka...i told the waiter....he said sorry to me...LOL....but tat cockroach not in food....juz wandering near kitchen....dun drink coconut ther...it will make u feel FULL and stop eating expensive stuff...HAHA

here r some football freestyle vids>>

touzani...freestyle master

Lol...tat's me...wif volleyball...i will balance any type of ball if i saw...hahaha

palle....my idol
ohh...nice picture....they r balancing balls too....on thier hairline...tat show hw it works...all is 100% true...trust wat u saw!! practise makes perfect..hehehe
aeroplane by palle##

football freestyle++MY FAVOURITE HOBBY... juz as those football freestyler said> football freestyle is about expressing urself....i love it very much since i m interested in football ....although it needs alot of hard works and practise it it wothwhile to train...as a hobby, art, and showboating....it is nice to praise by ppl...but i tink most of the ppl will juz praise if they noe football only...mosty ppl will say: WAT so special about this kinda stuff??" but i wanna say...it really hard than it looks like....and it is cool to watch...FOOTBALL FREESTYLE RULeZ!!!!!

up ther tat man is my idol-palle....football freestyler pro indeed...tat move is call aeroplane...quite alike wif china circus style..but wif football leg muz be faster....china wif pasu bunga...

ps* will update football freestyle clips in my blog...sorry if u all feel bored of tat...but i wish to share wif u guyz...HAHAHa

i hav a mum who loves me enuf...i m d youngest member of my family...so...they ++take care and concern me....i start to understand wat they did 4 me for so many years since i was born...mayb they r rite...i nid to push myself nw....but sometimes encouragement is needed...praising is needed...i will feel much much better if my family members can do tat towards me....NOt juz scolding, teasing...it will break my confidence, morale.....to the deepest...i apreciate everything....except those two...GG

this is the 1st time i create a blog indeed...will soon update...